解:?$(1)$?在?$y=\frac 12x+1$?中,令?$y=0,$?則?$x=-2,$?令?$x=0,$?則?$y=1$?
∴點?$A$?的坐標為?$(-2,$??$0),$?點?$B$?的坐標為?$(0,$??$1)$?
∴?$OA=2,$??$OB=1$?
∵?$S_{△ABD}=2,$?∴?$\frac 12BD·OA=2$?
∴?$BD=2,$?∴?$OD=BD-OB=1$?
∴點?$D$?的坐標為?$(0,$??$-1),$?∴?$b=-1$?
由?$\begin {cases}{y=\frac 12x+1y}\\{y=x-1}\end {cases},$?解得?$\begin {cases}{x=4}\\{y=3}\end {cases}$?
∴點?$P $?的坐標為?$(4,$??$3)$?
?$(2)$?由?$(1)$?知?$BD=2,$?點?$P $?的坐標為?$(4,$??$3)$?
∴?$S_{△ADP}=S_{△ABD}+S_{△BDP}=2+\frac 12BD×4=6$?