解:?$(2)$?對于方程組?$\begin {cases}2x - y = 12①\\4x + y = 12\ \mathrm {m}②\end {cases}$?
① + ②,得?$6x = 12 + 12\ \mathrm {m},$?即?$x = 2 + 2m$?
?$ $?把?$x = 2 + 2m $?代入?$①,$?得?$y = 4m - 8$?
∴?$x - y = 2 + 2m-(4m - 8)=10 - 2m$?
∵方程組的解?$x,$??$y$?具有?$''$?鄰好關(guān)系
∴?$|x - y| = 1,$?即?$10 - 2m=±1$?
?$ $?當(dāng)?$10 - 2m = 1$?時,?$2m = 9,$??$m = 4.5$?
?$ $?當(dāng)?$10 - 2m = -1$?時,?$2m = 11,$??$m = 5.5$?
∴?$m = 4.5$?或?$m = 5.5$?