$解:??(1)??相等,理由如下:$
$∵四邊形??ABCD??為菱形,$
$∴??AB=AD,??$
$∵??△AEF??為等邊三角形,$
$∴??AE=AF,??且??AE=AB,??$
$∴??AB=AE=AF=AD,??$
$∴??∠B=∠AEB=∠D=∠AFD,??$
$∴??∠BAE=∠DAF;??$
$??(2)??由??(1)??可知??∠BAE=∠DAF=x°,??$
$∴??∠BAD=∠BAE+∠DAF+∠EAF=60°+2x°,??$
$∴??∠B=180°-∠BAD=180°-(60°+2x°)=120°-2x°,??$
$??∠C=∠BAD=60°+2x°;??$
$??(3)??在??△ABE??中,??AB=AE,????∠BAE=x°,??$
$∴??∠B=\frac 12(180°-x°)=90°-\frac 12x°,??$
$又由??(2)??可得??∠B=120°-2x°,??$
$∴??90°-\frac 12x°=120°-2x°,??$
$解得??x=20??$
$∴??∠AEB=∠B=80°,??$
$∴??∠CEF=180°-∠AEB-∠AEF=180°-80°-60°=40°.??$