解:?$(1)$?∵?$M$?,?$N$?分別是線段?$AC$?,?$BC$?的中點(diǎn)
∴?$MC=\frac {1}{2}AC$?,?$CN=\frac {1}{2}BC$?
∴?$MN=MC+CN=\frac {1}{2}AC+\frac {1}{2}BC=\frac {1}{2}×4+\frac {1}{2}×6=5(\mathrm {cm})$?
∴線段?$MN$?的長為?$5\ \mathrm {cm}$?
?$(2)MN=\frac {1}{2}(a+b)$?
?$(3)$?如圖,?$MN=\frac {1}{2}(a-b)$?,理由如下:
?$MN=MC-NC=\frac {1}{2}AC-\frac {1}{2}BC=\frac {1}{2}a-\frac {1}{2}b=\frac {1}{2}(a-b)$?