解:∵?$DE//BC,$??$DF//AC$?
∴四邊形?$CEDF$?是平行四邊形
∴?$DE=CF$?
∴?$\frac {AD}{DB}=\frac {AE}{EC},$??$\frac {AB}{AD}=\frac {BC}{DE}$?
∴?$\frac {AD+BD}{AD}=\frac {BF+CF}{DE}$?
?$ 1+\frac {BD}{AD}=1+\frac {BF}{DF},$?即?$\frac {BD}{AD}=\frac {BF}{DE}$?
∴?$\frac {AD}{BD}=\frac {DE}{BF}$?
∵?$DF//AC $?
∴?$\frac {DF}{AC}=\frac {BF}{BC}$?
即?$(1)(2)(4)$?成立,?$(3)$?不成立