解:?$(1)$?∵?$∠B = 30°,$??$∠C = 70°$?
∴?$∠BAC = 180°-∠B - ∠C = 180°-30°-70°=80°$?
∵?$AE$?是角平分線,∴?$∠BAE=∠CAE=\frac 12∠BAC = 40°$?
∵?$AD$?是高,∴?$∠ADB = 90°$?
在?$\triangle ABD$?中,?$∠BAD = 90°-∠B= 90°-30°=60°$?
∴?$∠EAD=∠BAD - ∠BAE = 60°-40°=20°$?
?$(2)$?當?$α<β$?時,如圖②,?$∠EAD=∠EAC-∠DAC$?
?$=\frac 12(180°-α-β)-(90°-β)=\frac 12β-\frac 12α$?
當α>β時,如圖③,?$∠EAD=∠DAC-∠EAC$?
?$=(90°-β)-\frac 12(180°-α-β)=\frac 12α-\frac 12β$?