$?(1)?證明:∵?AF//BD,?且?AF=BD?$
$∴四邊形?AFBD?為平行四邊形$
$∵?AF//BC?$
$∴?∠AFE=∠DCE,??∠FAE=∠CDE?$
$∵?AE=DE?$
$∴?△AEF≌△DEC?$
$∴?AF =CD?$
$又∵?AF= BD?$
$∴?BD= CD?$
$?(2)?解:∵?AF= BD,??AF // BD?$
$∴四邊形?AFBD?是平行四邊形$
$又?AB = AC,??D?是邊?BC?的中點$
$∴?∠ADB = 90°?$
$∴四邊形?AFBD?是矩形$