$?(1)?證明:∵四邊形?ABCD?是正方形$
$∴?∠B=90°,??AD//BC?$
$∴?∠PAF=∠AEB?$
$∵?PF⊥AE ?$
$∴?∠AFP=∠B=90°?$
$∵?∠PAF=∠AEB?$
$∴?△PFA∽△ABE?$
$?(2)?解:存在$
$∵點?E?是?BC?的中點 $
$∴?BE=\frac 12BC=2?$
$∵四邊形?ABCD?是正方形 $
$∴?∠B=90°?$
$∴?AE=\sqrt {4^2+2^2}=2\sqrt 5?$
$①當?△FPE∽△BAE?時,?∠EPF=∠EAB?$
$∵?△PFA∽△ABE ?$
$∴?∠APF=∠EAB?$
$∴?∠APF=∠EPF?$
$∵?PF⊥AE ?$
$∴?PF?垂直平分?AE?$
$∴?AF=\frac 12AE?$
$∵?△PFA∽△ABE?$
$∴?\frac {AP}{EA}=\frac {AF}{EB},?即?\frac {x}{2\sqrt 5}=\frac {\sqrt 5}2?$
$∴?x=5?$
$②當?△FEP∽△BAE?時,?∠PEF=∠EAB?$
$∴?AB//EP?$
$∵點?E?是?BC?的中點$
$∴點?P?是?AD?的中點$
$∴?x=\frac 12×4=2?$
$綜上所述,?x?的值為?5?或?2?$