$?解:(1)C(-12 , -9) , D(-12 , 0)$
$??(2)由題意可得,CP: AP=2: 1 , △PCD∽△PAB$
$??因為△PCD∽△PAB$
$??所以∠CDP=∠ABP??$
$所以AB//CD??$
$所以△POC∽△ABC$
$??因為CP:AP=2:1$
$??所以\frac {OP}{AB}=\frac {CP}{AC}=\frac {2}{3}??$
$所以點A坐標為(6,\frac {9}{2}),??即AB=\frac {9}{2}??$
$所以OP=3$
$??所以點P的坐標為(0,3)??$
$(3)因為△POC∽△ABC$
$??所以\frac {OP}{AB}=\frac {CP}{AC}$
$??因為AB//CD$
$??所以△POB∽△DCB$
$??因為△PAB∽△PCD$
$??所以\frac {OP}{CD}=\frac {BP}{BD}=\frac {AP}{AC}??$
$所以\frac {OP}{AB}+\frac {OP}{CD}=\frac {CP}{AC}+\frac {AP}{AC}=1??$
$所以\frac {1}{AB}+\frac {1}{CD}=\frac {1}{OP}$