$解:①當(dāng)m=-1時(shí),關(guān)于x的不等式組$
$\begin{cases}{x+1\gt m}\\{x-1≤n}\end{cases}$
$的x 解集為-2<x≤ n+1$
$因?yàn)椴坏仁浇M恰好有4個(gè)整數(shù)解$
$所以4個(gè)整數(shù)解是-1,0,1,2$
$所以2≤n+1<3,即1≤n<2$
$②當(dāng)n=2m時(shí),關(guān)于x的不等式組$
$\begin{cases}{x+1\gt m}\\{x-1≤n}\end{cases}$
$的解集為m-1<x≤2m+1$
$2m+1-(m-1)=m+2$
$因?yàn)椴坏仁浇M恰好有4個(gè)整數(shù)解$
$所以3<m+2<5$
$解得1<m<3$
$所以0<m-1<2,3<2m+1<7$
$當(dāng)0<m-1<1,即1<m<2時(shí),如圖①,$
$必須滿(mǎn)足4≤2m+1<5$
$所以\frac{3}{2}≤m<2$
$當(dāng)1≤m-1<2,即2≤m<3時(shí),如圖②$
$必須滿(mǎn)足5≤2m+1<6$
$所以2≤m<\frac{5}{2}$
$綜上,\frac{3}{2}≤m<\frac{5}{2}$