解:?$(1)CD=2,$??$HL=4,$??$OA=\sqrt{41},$??$OF=2 \sqrt{41},$?
?$BE=\sqrt{5},$??$GM=2 \sqrt{5}$?
?$(2) \frac {CD}{HL}=\frac {1}{2},$??$\frac {OA}{OF}=\frac {1}{2},$??$\frac {BE}{GM}=\frac {1}{2} $?
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?$ (3)\frac {OE}{OM}=\frac {BC}{GH}=\frac {BD}{GL}$?