解:四邊形?$ABCD$?與四邊形?$AEOF $?相似, 理由:
∵?$△AEO∽△ABC$?
∴?$∠2=∠1,$??$∠4=∠3,$??$\frac {EO}{BC}=\frac {AO}{AC}=\frac {AE}{AB}$?
∵?$△AOF∽△ACD$?
∴?$∠6=∠5,$??$∠8=∠7,$??$\frac {OF}{CD}=\frac {AO}{AC}=\frac {AF}{AD}$?
∴?$∠2+∠6=∠1+∠5,$?即?$∠EOF=∠BCD ,$??$\frac {EO}{BC}=\frac {AE}{AB}=\frac {OF}{CD}=\frac {AF}{AD}$?
在四邊形?$AEOF $?和四邊形?$ABCD$?中,∵?$∠EAF=∠BAD,$??$∠4=∠3,$?
?$∠EOF=∠BCD,$??$∠8=∠7,$??$\frac {EO}{BC}=\frac {AE}{AB}=\frac {AF}{AD}=\frac {OF}{CD}$?
∴四邊形?$AEOF∽$?四邊形?$ABCD,$?即四邊形?$ABCD$?與四邊形?$AEOF $?相似